Source A: an epitaph from a tomb at Rome
'Here lies Amymone, wife of Marcus, best and most beautiful, a worker of wool, dutiful, modest, careful with money, chaste, stay-at-home.'
To what extent did the Romans value a wife mainly for her work in the home? Use Source A as a starting point and your own knowledge.
Model answer
Source A suggests that a wife was valued mainly for domestic qualities. Amymone is praised as a 'worker of wool', 'careful with money' and 'stay-at-home', as well as dutiful, modest and chaste. Many other epitaphs say the same: Claudia's tombstone ends 'She kept the house. She worked wool', and the husband in the Laudatio Turiae lists his wife's devotion to wool-working and modest dress among her virtues. Wool-working (lanificium) was the symbol of the good matrona, like Lucretia spinning among her maids late at night in Livy's story, and Augustus made a point of wearing clothes made by the women of his family. Running the household, managing the slaves and the stores, was the matrona's main responsibility.
However, Romans valued other qualities too, many of them moral rather than domestic. Amymone is also 'best and most beautiful', and chastity and modesty were about the family's honour and the legitimacy of its children, not about housework; even 'stay-at-home' is really a sign of respectability. Claudia is praised for loving her husband, bearing two sons and being charming in conversation and graceful in movement. Motherhood was highly valued: Cornelia called her sons her 'jewels', and Augustus rewarded mothers of three children. Loyalty mattered most of all in the Laudatio Turiae, where the wife is praised for saving her husband's life with great courage. Pliny valued Calpurnia's intelligence and love of literature.
We should also remember that epitaphs are short and formulaic, written by husbands in conventional language, and that wealthy women had slaves to do most of the work, so 'working wool' was partly a symbol.
So the home was central to how a good wife was described, but Romans valued her chastity, loyalty, motherhood and companionship at least as much as her work in the home.
Explanation
A strong answer sees that domestic words in epitaphs often stand for moral qualities: wool-working meant industry and thrift, staying at home meant chastity. It balances these against evidence that husbands valued love, motherhood, loyalty and intelligence, and it evaluates epitaphs as formulaic, idealised evidence.