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Tackling Online Bullies
Date : 17/11/2013
The first step to keeping your child`s Web time bully free is to make sure your family computer is a safe space. Is your child more tech-savvy than you? It will be easier help her deal with problems online if you have a better understanding of Internet usage, terminology, and the "text speak" kids use. Here are some other simple ways to keep your child safe on the Web:
. Let your child know you`re paying attention to her Web usage. Keep the family computer somewhere out in the open. Absolutely keep Webcams out of your child`s bedroom. . Talk to your child about the Web sites she visits. Keep a log of the Web sites, user names, and passwords she uses (if applicable). . Make sure your child doesn`t give out any personal information in chat rooms, on social networking sites, or personal Web pages. . Use parental controls to block Web sites that aren`t kid-friendly. Set up firewalls to block viruses. . Tell your child to delete emails and close instant-message boxes from people she doesn`t know. If the person continues to email or message, help your child block the account. While it may be harder to identify a cyber bully than a "real life" bully, chat room names, email addresses, and instant-messenger accounts can be changed at the drop of a hat. Talk to your child about what he does on the Web and consider these steps to build a cyber-bully-proof plan: . Encourage your child to ignore cyber bullies, even if what they are saying isn`t true. Remember, ignoring a cyber bully is as easy as deleting an email or closing an instant-messenger window. . Block the email addresses and instant-messenger accounts of bullies. Even if your child hasn`t met his bully "in real life," you don`t need personal details to filter out harassing emails. .
If the bullying takes place in a chat room or on a forum, moderators for the site can be notified and the bully`s account can be suspended. Instant messenger services also have `report abuse` options.
If your child knows his bully "in real life," you might want to arrange a meeting between children and parents to work out the problem in person.
If your child has a repeat problem or is threatened by a bully, be sure to save a copy of the exchange with the date and time. Contact your Internet service provider (ISP) - they may be able to track down the bully. If your child is being harassed by someone who seems to know a lot of information about her, it may be necessary to contact the police.
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