Handling The Criticism Of Parents/teachers

Students face lot of time the situation where they face to listen their shortcomings of life or studies from parents and teachers.In this situation like other human beings their first reaction to flee not fights.That is the good option rather to fight with elders.But they did not handle aftershocks. Then most dangerous part start i.e. Resentment (Frozen Anger)

When we did not fight and did not forgive then resentment start which take us in lot of troubles.

We will discuss later on how to handle resentment consequence. But today i will let teach you how to kill the resentment at first place so other problems related resentment will not happen.

There are following situations in which teacher or parent criticism you.

Situation No.1: When you have fault. When you did mistake

We want to be king

We want to be famous

We want to be a person who has no shortcomings

Simply

We want to be Superman

and when someone tell us look you are not superman, then we don t like that person point of view. If someone tells us our weakness or shortcomings basically he realizes us that we are just a common person who did the mistakes. That is the real truth which we don`t want to listen. This is the reason we become angry when someone criticises us.

Now what one has to do at that moment. Thank you that person because he/she pin point out your mistakes. If that shortcoming is present in you, remove it and become stronger then before. Don t jealous to that person and don t make him you enemy.

Sitution No.2: When you do nothing wrong

If someone criticizes you on the shortcoming which is not present in you. Then don t angry on that poor soul. Actually he is doing a great kindness on you. One is giving all his good deeds to you. His/Her good deeds transfer to you on that false criticism.

So don t be angry or feeling resentment on that person.

If you learn the art to handle the cristicism from your parents and teachers then you become stronger day by day in your studies or in social life.