The Husband Should Bring Most Of The Money In The Family

The topic contains more than one concept in it.

1- Husband and wife as they are two wheels of the vehicle of life. Both should contribute for financial support of the family. So a bigger part of the family income should be brought by the husband.

2- Husband is usually considered the one who ears bread and butter for family. So whatever he earns, no matter how much money he earns, he should bring most of that money in the family, instead of giving alms, depositing in bank for later use or whatever.

Let suppose he could not earn that much money to support his family and let suppose there is no one else in the family to contribute financially. The husband is sole bread earner. Then what would happen? What would be the consequences? Is there any danger of being ruined for the family?

Let’s talk about it.

If we take the first condition and answer the aforementioned questions. In this case husband and wife are considered to be working. Both have jobs and husband earns less than his wife. Wife should not be sarcastic, should never taunt his husband. Family is not of husband. Family is not just because of husband. Wife is also a part of the family. If she thinks that husband should fulfill her and her children’s needs though she is also working. If she thinks she is not responsible for family’s income it means she is refusing to be a part of the family. Family is just like a factory or a machine. When all the factors of a factory words together and in a proper manner or when all the parts of machine move together the factory produces its best and quality products and machine words fine. Living in one family there is no one superior. With superior I mean no one can claim I have more power or I have more right on something. Everyone has to give hand equally to make the family an exemplary.

So far second concept is concerned, as a wise husband if he saves some money for future use, he shouldn’t be taken negatively. Even it’s a favorable thing for the whole family. If you can manage, if you can make both ends meet easily within a limited amount you must go for it, you must save some amount. Saving, without being miser, is wise.

On the top of that, no matter how poor or rich you are, you must give a selective portion from your family income for the sake of GOD, to the poor people. Because remember one thing what you give to the world, it comes to you with an interest.

All in all, husband and wife together should support their family. It doesn’t matter if both or one of them is working and bringing bread and butter home. Both should consider the importance of each other. If husband is the only and sole bread earner wife still then can help, by staying at home, taking care of all the other matters, by looking after husband’s parents, if he has, by looking after his children. Ready the meal when he returns home or goes for work. No one’s importance can be denied for the establishment of a perfect family.